University can be a stressful time for those of us who are just a bit awkward. We hide away in lectures and dread the moment when a professor makes eye contact to ask us a question. I mean, we might know the answer, but that doesn’t mean when we try to say it out loud we manage to form a coherent sentence.

So to help make life a little easier, Hijacked has all the tips to help you socially awkward students conquer uni life.

Attend Events That Force You To Make Friends

Although the thought of networking may make you want to curl up in a ball and cry, it is the best way to help you overcome those awkward feels. Most unis will host networking events with the help of organisations, clubs or companies where you network through games and activities. While this may sound very uncool to the average student, for those who have trouble speaking to strangers, it’s the perfect way to meet new people without the pressure of having to think of things to say. New friends without small talk = living the dream.

Sit Next To Someone In A Lecture Or Tute

The idea of sitting next to a random in a lecture or tute is terrifying, I know. But you’ll be able to meet people who can give you notes if you’re sick. The best part is the only talking time is a few minutes before class starts, maybe a small break in the middle and the time spent walking out of the lecture hall. Plus, there is no stress of thinking of small talk topics because you have an entire lecture worth of content.

Remember That Nobody Cares What You’re Doing Or Wearing

Sometimes when you’re talking to someone new, it’s hard not to overanalyse every second. “I wonder if they are judging my outfit” or “Oh god, why did you say that” are the common thoughts that go through the minds of the socially awkward.

It is important to remember that nobody gives a damn what you’re wearing or doing. Honestly, people come to uni in their PJs and no one bats an eyelid. If you’re in a situation where you feel like people are judging your every move, ask yourself whether that’s likely. With everyone worrying about their own shit, would they really care that you dropped food on your shirt or that your chair made a fart sound?

Join A Team Sport Or Club

Social sports and clubs are the best place for socially awkward people to be brought out of their shell. Your first meeting or training session will definitely be the worse, as you contemplate 100 excuses you could use to get out of it. But going along and even adding a few words to the conversation will be the start of a fantastic adventure full of friends and fun. As teams and clubs are generally small, it is a great starting point for creating a friend base as you will all have a common interest.

Next time you feel like ditching uni to avoid awkward situations and small talk, try one of these tips for a confidence booster. Lastly, don’t forget, you’re awesome and you’ve got this.

Hayley Payne

Hayley is a Public Relations and Politics student at Griffith University. She spends her (little) free time writing, watching movies and generating future plans.