#ArrestUs: People Who Have Had Abortions In NSW Are Sharing Their Stories To Call For Change
"We have all had abortions under NSW laws which define abortion as a crime. We want to be the last."
Today, NSW Parliament will debate a bill that could finally decriminalise abortion in the state, after 119 long years. In the lead-up to the debate, people who have had an abortion in NSW are stepping forward to share their stories using the hashtag #ArrestUs, daring opponents of the bill to actually view them with compassion.
The hashtag was kicked off by a tweet posted yesterday by Emily Mayo, who pointed out that it has been close to 50 years since a group of women took out a newspaper ad to make a similar protest. Overnight, her tweet has grown into a movement, with more than 50 women adding their names to a statement calling for abortion to be decriminalised once and for all.
50 years since women took out an ad calling for their arrest because they had abortions. Abortion is still a crime in #NSWpol. Now is the time for it to change. Today, it is time again, for those of us who can stand up and speak out to do so. One last time. We say: #ArrestUs.
— Emily Mayo (@iamemilymayo) August 5, 2019
“In the early 1970s eighty women declared themselves to be criminals in a national newspaper, taking out an advertisement as a provocation in the campaign to decriminalise abortion,” the #ArrestUs statement reads.
“Fifty years on and abortion is still technically a crime in NSW. A bill to be debated in NSW Parliament this week seeks to finally change that. Should it pass women in NSW will finally have the freedom to make our reproductive health choices without facing the challenges presented because abortion is criminalised.”
“The women who took out the advert in the 1970s did it because they could. They had the privilege to be able to speak up and they believed they had a responsibility to do so. And so it is time again, for those of us who can stand up and speak out to do so. One last time.”
“We, more than fifty women and fifty long years since that bold action of the 1970s, are making this statement: We are diverse women. Our abortion experiences are varied. We have had abortions decades ago and very recently. We have all had abortions under NSW laws which define abortion as a crime. We want to be the last.”
“We say: Arrest us. Abortion is still a crime in NSW. Now is the time for it to change.”
2011. Didn't have anyone to take me home so had to take the mifepristone option, which cost $450. I had $150 left for the rest of the year. Make it legal. Make it free. #ArrestUs
— Alison Whittaker (@AJ_Whittaker) August 5, 2019
2016. My body couldn’t handle another pregnancy so close to my first. My uterus would have ruptured and I’d never have had my second child. #ArrestUs
— Amplify Magazine (@WokeAFMedia) August 5, 2019
At 21 I fell pregnant to a man who was abusing me in horrible ways. There was no way I could subject a child to him. I had an abortion. It was a wake up call and within 6 months I got away from him. That abortion might have saved my life. No regrets. #ArrestUs https://t.co/XSo6yjQgLi
— KelB (@KelButler) August 5, 2019
More and more people are adding their names to the statement via Twitter, sharing their stories using the #ArrestUs hashtag. It’s a powerful look at what the criminalisation of abortion has meant for women and other people seeking abortions in NSW over time.
There’s a common theme in the stories: that the times when these women have needed abortions have been extraordinarily difficult times, made even more difficult by the state. These women are putting their stories out there in the hope that other women won’t have such a difficult time in future.
1993 after a sexual assault #ArrestUs thank god I had the choice at the time. How dare anyone tell me what I can and can’t do. Thank you to those who were before me and made it possible at this difficult time.
— victoriacarter (@sweetaxident) August 5, 2019
I have had 2 abortions. Both in my early twenties. I then found out later (mid 30’s) that I couldn’t concieve a child. Was heartbreaking but…I’ll never regret the choice I made. #ArrestUs
— Amanda Norbury (@MandyNorbury) August 5, 2019
#ArrestUs my first abortion I was 23. My second I was 29. Both were illegal. Both were the best decision for me at the time, and now. I regret neither and celebrate both as an example of my RIGHT to bodily autonomy. My body, my choice. Mind your own uterus! https://t.co/ETirKv0OBg
— SmushyB (@SmushyB) August 5, 2019
2014. 23 years old and with an emotionally & verbally abusive partner who left me to deal with it on my own. Grateful to the Drs who helped me circumvent the illegality of abortion and to my friends who baked me a cake afterwards. #ArrestUs
— Lani. (@energyyells) August 5, 2019
2000. 2004. 2005 #arrestus
— Cin Ta (@gotsthebug) August 5, 2019
2003, 2004. I thank the women who went before me, who made it possible for me to make those decisions. This is for the women who will come after us, so they can decide in safety. #ArrestUs
— Kathryn Elizabeth (@BillablePoetry) August 5, 2019
NSW Parliament will debate the abortion decriminalisation bill from midday today. You can read and share the #ArrestUs statement below.